Internet Filtering

Should I install internet filtering or monitoring software?

Filters can usually prevent young children from accidentally stumbling on troubling or inappropriate material, but they are less effective at keeping older kids and teens from deliberately visiting blocked sites. There are several ways to get around filters, including using another computer, mobile phone, or tablet that's not filtered. Whether and how to use filtering and monitoring tools is a parental decision that should be based on your understanding of what's best for your child.

There are some children and teens who need very strict controls and others who can do just fine without them, based on conversations and adherence to household rules. Only you know what's best for your child.

Monitoring tools can inform parents of what their kids are doing but some kids -- especially teens -- feel that it's an invasion of their privacy and many would argue that it's not necessary or helpful. When it comes to monitoring tools, another risk is "too much information." Do you really want to look at every text message and review every website your child visits?

Every family must make its own decision based on a number of factors including:

• The child's age and maturity
• The child's sensitivity to certain types of content that may be "appropriate" but still upsetting
• The child's propensity to take risks
• The child's impulse control
• The child's willingness to adhere to family rules
• The parent's values and concerns over types of content and activities
• Any special circumstances or needs that affect your child