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Practical Advice

The information below is from Coping with Self-harm: A Guide for Parents and Carers developed by researchers from the University of Oxford.

Overdoses:

  • Get your child to an emergency department as soon as possible
  • Try to find out what they have taken and tell emergency medical staff
  • If your child won't tell you, look around for empty pill bottles or blister packs

Cut and Wounds:

  • Apply pressure to bleeding cuts using a bandage or towel (a tea towel may be less likely to stick to the wound)
  • Clean the wound under running tap water and apply a sterile adhesive dressing
  • If the wound has become infected (e.g., swelling, pus forming or spreading redness) encourage your child to seek medical help

Burns:

  • Cool with cold water for 10 to 30 minutes, then cover with cling film
  • Don't use ice or any creams or greasy substances such as butter
  • For more information on handling wounds and burns, and information about when to see a doctor, see www.nhs.uk or ring NHS Direct on 111.

Scars:

  • If your child has scars, they're embarrassed about you can look into commercial products that may help them fade
  • Scars can also be covered by makeup
  • Remind your child that most scars will eventually fade